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Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Feed The Right Wolf

I've always liked this Cherokee legend.

The Wolves Within

An old Grandfather said to his grandson, who came to him with anger at a friend who had done him an injustice, "Let me tell you a story.

I too, at times, have felt a great hate for those that have taken so much, with no sorrow for what they do.

But hate wears you down, and does not hurt your enemy. It is like taking poison and wishing your enemy would die. I have struggled with these feelings many times." He continued, "It is as if there are two wolves inside me. One is good and does no harm. He lives in harmony with all around him, and does not take offense when no offense was intended. He will only fight when it is right to do so, and in the right way.

But the other wolf, ah! He is full of anger. The littlest thing will set him into a fit of temper. He fights everyone, all the time, for no reason. He cannot think because his anger and hate are so great. It is helpless anger, for his anger will change nothing.

Sometimes, it is hard to live with these two wolves inside me, for both of them try to dominate my spirit."

The boy looked intently into his Grandfather's eyes and asked, "Which one wins, Grandfather?"

The Grandfather smiled and quietly said, "The one I feed."

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Makes you think, huh?

6 comments:

Diane Craver said...

Hi Maria,

I enjoyed the Cherokee legend. Very true.

By the way, I've nominated your lovely blog for the Sunshine Award because you always share a positive spirit. To accept just visit my blog and follow the rules.

brokenbiro said...

I learnt this lesson whilst going through a divorce - my hating him was only harming me. So thanks for the reminder! 8-)
Other canine-related lessons learned from my marriage include: 'Let lying dogs sleep'

Maria Zannini said...

Thanks, Diane!

Maria Zannini said...

Hi brokenbiro,

Ref: 'Let lying dogs sleep'

Priceless!

Sherri said...

That's always been one of my favs.

catie james said...

Oh yes, I love this story. I'll be bookmarking & sharing w/my family! Thank you Maria.