Touching Your Dream

Recently, on Absolute Write Water Cooler, we received news that one of our members passed away suddenly.

It upset me more than I realized. As I went about my day, I kept thinking more and more about this lady, a stranger to me.

Her name was Irene and she wrote middle grade fiction. Only recently, she received news from an agent wanting to represent her.

Reading her blog, I felt her joy and excitement at receiving the news. There were several agents interested in her manuscript, but when she spoke to the first agent who offered representation, she immediately felt a connection. That was who she wanted.

Irene touched her dream however briefly, and I hope that brought her some measure of contentment.

I often ponder on life and death. It's important to me to leave this world a little better than I found it. I might not be able to change big things, but maybe I can make some hurts less painful, some joys more powerful, and make friends to last a lifetime.

I think Irene accomplished that. All the interest from agents was just icing on the cake--a little personal woohoo for her bucket list. Judging by the support on AW, she accomplished a lot more than that.

She helped others with their manuscripts,
offered a shoulder to cry on when things didn't go as hoped, and urged others to rally and buy her friends' books. She sounded like a wonderful person. The kind of person I'd like to be. The kind of legacy I'd like to leave.

The word on the grapevine says that her husband will continue with Irene's project and I hope with all my heart that it'll get picked up. If it does get published, I intend to buy it as a tribute to a life well spent.

Rest in peace, Irene. You left behind more than a manuscript. You left an indelible impression on people you didn't even know.

What sort of legacy would you like to leave behind? If you knew tomorrow was your last day, what would you do today?

Comments

Anonymous saidā€¦
So sad. Puts life into perspective and what's really important.
Mike Keyton saidā€¦
You're put on this Earth to give and Irene sounds like she did exactly that - as do you Maria.
Pope Michael 1st
Dru saidā€¦
Makes you think about not putting your dreams off for another day.
Jennifer Shirk saidā€¦
Aww, that is sad to hear.
I guess in the grand scheme of things, I'd liked to be remembered for more than just writing a book or getting it published.
I'd liked to be remembered as someone kind, funny, and helpful.
Meghan S. saidā€¦
That is so sad. But it's wonderful that her husband is following through with her work in her memory.
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Liz: I don't know why it affected me the way it did. I'm so glad she got the call before she passed.
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Mike: When God throws out lightning bolts, I don't want to be standing next to you. LOL!

Thanks, though. That's sweet of you to think of me that way.
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Dru: Isn't that the truth? This is why housework and dishes aren't high on my priority list. :)
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Jennifer: You accomplished that, hon. In spades. I count myself lucky to know you.
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Meghan: I was very happy to hear her husband wanted to continue her work. I'd like to think mine would too. At least I hope so.
February Grace saidā€¦
What a beautiful tribute post, thank you for sharing it with us. I too hope her project gets picked up but even if it doesn't it sounds like Irene already truly made her mark in this world in the lives of her friends.

Thank you for telling us about her.

~bru
Barbara Ann Wright saidā€¦
I'd take my husband and my loved ones and go somewhere I've never been. I'd want to die in the open somewhere beautiful.
I'm glad Irene got a woo-hoo moment before the end. And I'm glad someone thought to tell her cyber friends what had happened to her. All too often, people disappear from my life, and I wonder what happened to them, if they passed on or just tuned out. My husband has already agreed that, if something happens to me, he'll post on my blog so everyone knows what became of me.
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
February: It was one of those things that haunted me all day. Irene will be missed.
Marianne Arkins saidā€¦
So sad, but wonderful she touched so many people and came so close to her dream. I beautiful post, Maria, and one that makes a person think.

Thanks.
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Barbara: I'm glad your hubby would be willing to update everyone. It would mean so much to us (your online friends).

Unless someone shows Greg how to work Blogger, my demise will probably be a footnote in someone else's blog. LOL.

I've tried to teach him several times but he doesn't use it enough to stick.
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Marianne: Isn't it amazing how many lives we touch without realizing it?

'It's A Wonderful Life' really got it right.
Ellie Garratt saidā€¦
So sad, but what a fitting tribute. However small our contact with some people, they have still as you say touched our lives.
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Elle: So true. The internet has expanded our reach beyond borders, real or imagined.
Wendy Ramer, Author saidā€¦
Your closing question made me think of the Nickelback song, "If Today Was Your Last Day", which I love. If today was my last day, I'd dance super silly with my kids and then fall asleep with them.
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Wendy: That is so sweet!

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I only know one Nickelback song (Animal) and it's kind of dirty. LOL. But I like it anyway.

It always gets me in trouble if I'm driving. For some reason, my foot presses harder on the accelerator when that song comes on.
Unknown saidā€¦
I'm very sorry about Irene's death Maria.

If I knew it was my last day, I'd spend it with my parents, two favorite cousins, their spouses and their kids.
Marian Perera saidā€¦
If I knew it was my last day, I'd upload a couple of my best manuscripts to my website and ask people to enjoy them after I'm gone.

And it had better be my last day after that, because I'll be so ticked off to lose first rights otherwise.
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Catie: I agree. I'd be with those I love and make sure they know how much they mean to me.
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Marian:

Ref: And it had better be my last day after that, because I'll be so ticked off to lose first rights otherwise.

I nearly coughed up a lung when I read this. LOL

Good one!
Writer saidā€¦
Hi Maria,
This is such a loaded question. To leave a legacy behind means that you had been working on it for a while. I would love to see people be more open-minded and less arrogant (or should I say ignorant) when it comes to taking care of our planet. It's the only one we have. Mother Nature is now retaliating for years of abuse and neglect. I've been educating people about this issue, so Iguess that would be my legacy (a grain of salt but it feels good knowing I cared).
Jackie saidā€¦
I am not looking to leave a legacy, my carbon footprint has always been "small" in the scheme of things.. If I could do anything at all it would be to have one last day of laughing with friends that have not had contact with for awhile and to be able to make peace with whatever family is still alive at the time that I have grown apart from... Anything else would be "icing" on the cake, winning the lottery would be a great way to go out!!! {I do not play the thing so not sure how that would work}

jackie ^_^
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Claudia:

Ref: To leave a legacy behind means that you had been working on it for a while.

Yup. How we lived our lives will be remembered by those we left behind.
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Jackie: LOL!

My husband says that to me all the time. I don't play the lottery--so how can I win?

But if you figure it out, let me know.
Maria saidā€¦
things like these make me grateful to be alive. to answer the question, I wouldn`t leave anything behind, I`d take it all with me. :)
Arlee Bird saidā€¦
More than anything I hope the legacy I leave is a positive set of values and good memories that I leave with my kids.
One last day? Difficult since my kids, family, and friends are scattered all over the country. I'd probably spend some time on the phone. I'd want to spend some time with my wife and daughter and granddaughter who live nearby. And just have quiet peaceful time of reflections and enjoying my surroundings.

Lee
Tossing It Out
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Amy: You said it. It also makes me realize I have so much more to do before I'm done. Thanks for stopping by.
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Lee: That sounds like a nice plan. I like your priorities.
DEZMOND saidā€¦
if tomorrow was my last day I'd quickly sell my house, car and everything I have and I'd give the money to some special cause, maybe to save someone's life or send some poor kid of to college etc.
Maria Zannini saidā€¦
Dezmond: While I don't think I'd want to know it's my last day, it would be nice to physically bestow gifts while I'm alive.

A will is all well and good but you never know what those things will mean to those you left behind.