Carpe Diem
My mother, who is spry and nearly eighty is very fond of (nagging) encouraging me to enjoy life. She often chastises me for working too hard and chasing the dollar.
It's then that I remind her that I do not have six children who will take care of me when I'm her age. Greg and I are on our own. Whatever we've saved up until now has to last us the rest of our lives--however long that might be.
Still, I get her drift. Life is too short to waste it on things that bring you no pleasure.
A friend of mine told me recently that she had lost her joy of writing. I get that way every once in a while too. I usually snap out of it, but one day I know I won't. One day, I'll decide there are other things I'd like to do that bring me more joy--or at least less headaches.
Despite my mother's nagging I actually learned this lesson earlier from my father-in-law. Greg and I once gave him a very expensive bottle of whiskey. It was from a maker he loved and we knew it was the perfect gift for him.
But when he died several years later, we found the bottle in his closet, still unopened. We were so terribly sad because we knew he was saving that whiskey for a special day, and now he would never have the chance to drink it.
Carpe Diem. Sieze the day. Enjoy life to its fullest, and do what you love best because you'll never know when that day will be your last.
What have you been putting off for another day? What gives you joy?
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Guess the Title Contest
Here are the previous hints for guessing the title to my next book.
• There are two 'Os' in the title.
• Something in the cover art is integral to the title.
• There are two S's in the third word of the title.
• There is one 'H' in the title.
And here is today's hint:
• One of the words is a preposition.
To enter the contest, fill out the form here.
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Guess the Title Contest
Here are the previous hints for guessing the title to my next book.
• There are two 'Os' in the title.
• Something in the cover art is integral to the title.
• There are two S's in the third word of the title.
• There is one 'H' in the title.
And here is today's hint:
• One of the words is a preposition.
To enter the contest, fill out the form here.
Comments
I don't see things that way anymore. If I want something, I go for it.
Wait...I have put something off. Driving. It scares the bejesus out of me and I did have my learner's permit several times, but I just can't get over that fear. I said when I turned 30 that I'd learn to drive before 40...the clock is ticking. I just puked a little in my mouth at the idea.
I don't like to drive, but I've been known to be an adventurous driver.
I find it hard to believe driving scares you.
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Julie: That is a beautiful promise to yourself. Good for you. That's the way to do it!
This is a lesson that I learned a few years ago when I was waiting for something to happened and it didn't and I missed an opportunity. So now, I go to my reader conventions; take those short trips; and enjoy what life has to offer me.
In fact, it might help me if I didn't seize nearly as much some days LOL
re: losing the interest in writing
It's like any career. Some people enjoy it forever. Some do not. Some do job changes within their career's umbrella. It's all good :)
Isis: It worries me a little that the current generation has so many entitlement issues. They're in for a rude awakening when they discover opportunity isn't always going to fall into their laps.
LG: Good for you! We've been on the fence on a trip too. If we can find someone to take care of animals, we're going to go.
Krista: I noticed you put in the 'illegal' disclaimer.
Yeah, sure. I understand. :wink:
Never.
Ever.
*hides the shovel*
Jennifer: LOL. I like the way your mind thinks. Enjoy!
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Sarah: It's been my experience that things happen for a reason. Though you lost your joy of writing for a couple of years, I'm willing to bet you made up for in different experiences, and that made you richer as a person.
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Barbara: ROTFL! Okay, that one took me off guard. I could go for a donut right now.
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Angela: When I was younger, I was very much into denying myself pleasures, saying it was better to save it for a later day. But now I'm in my later days, and I don't want to save my joys anymore.
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Marlene: Ouch! There's a lesson right there.
As for what I have been putting off, Hmmm. Oh getting my hair cut. lol... It's long and I wonder if it would be any better short. Geez Maria, I don't think I have put anything off that I have really wanted to do or something that is important. I enjoy what I do.
Maria they say with age comes wisdom, well I have the age but so far the wisdom eludes me and putting off certain more pleasurable activities still takes second place to obligations and responsibilities.
Your mother is very wise.
Every Savage Can Reproduce
Other than that, Carpe diem is sound advice. I was going to say 'and peculiarly western' but I'm not sure if that's true. Perhaps worth exploring.
Jackie: Isn't that the truth. You really got a taste of Whammo in a very short period of time. I'm glad things are beginning to settle down.
Enid: Travel is a biggie in our bucket list. I understand completely.
Mike: True. But then if you died, malt whiskey would be the least of your worries--I hope. LOL.
I left you an award on my blog Maria!
Maria: She's pretty smart for an old lady. :)