Living on Less, Deliberately
I take saving money seriously. You have to when you consider we now live on less than half of what we made only a few months ago as full time employees.
Severe? To the uninitiated of the secret cult of retirees, maybe, but we've been preparing for our retirement for a long time.
Here are some of the things we've done to stay ahead of the curve.
• I buy in bulk whenever something we use or eat goes on sale.
• We're disciplined with our spending. We've learned to recognize impulse buys for what they are-- cash-sucking vampires.
• We buy used whenever possible. Garage sales help here. Last weekend, we spent twelve dollars for:
-a Pyrex measuring cup
-15 dvds
-1 xBox game
-an electronic food scale
-an excellent hanging feed bucket (for my goats)
-an electronic range finder
-steel beams for Greg's metal working projects
-a metal work stand, also for Greg's projects
-a stone entry table that's tres chic
A lot of these things were 25 cents or less. Others were free (like the entry table). It had a broken metal leg that Greg welded back to new in seconds. By the way, that little piece of red decorative porcelain was a quarter.
• We still keep an expense journal which has helped in keeping us honest about what we really spend. To be fair, though, it's a pain in the tuckus to keep it updated.That takes discipline too.
• We reuse and repurpose whenever possible. For example, we need a hay barn. We could build it from scratch, but we have a HUGE greenhouse we're not using. We're going to dismantle it and use half as the skeleton for the hay barn and half for another building elsewhere.
• We sell what we no longer need. Our last garage sale was so successful, we plan another one with what's left over from the other house. We still have appliances and furniture over there.
If you want to make some quick cash, sell the stuff you no longer use. It's not doing you any favors sitting in storage. Use Craigslist, eBay, or team up with friends to hold a yard sale. Even Facebook has groups that lets you sell your stuff locally.
• I freelance. Even a little extra cash softens the blow of surprise expenses.
• We don't care about keeping up with the Joneses. I used to be envious of friends who were ten years older than us. Gorgeous home, expensive cars, great vacations. I didn't know then that they were always in debt...and probably still are.
When you're used to a certain amount of income, it can be jarring when you cut it to the bone, but it's entirely doable. Before we both retired, we spent a long time calculating expenses. The hard part is calculating emergencies and major auto or appliance breakdowns. And replacements? Those are killers!
We're lucky in that Greg can diagnose and fix most anything. In back to back weeks, he's had to fix both our AC units, each with a different problem. Replacing the parts wasn't cheap, but still a helluva lot cheaper than hiring a specialist. You can't live in Texas without air conditioning. Well, you could, but you wouldn't be happy.
I am not handy. I can grow stuff and I'm pretty good at keeping man and beasts alive, but that's the extent of my practical home skills.
Sometimes I toy with the idea of going back to work. Fortunately, I've managed to talk myself out of it. I guess if we ever have to replace our ginormous roof, or put Greg through school for his doctorate, I might consider working for da man, but until then, I'll stick to making do with what we've got.
Do you earn income from something--aside from your regular job? If you were retired right now, what would you do with your time?
I've had to teach myself to be more easy going and not try to do everything in one day. Retirement is still a hard concept for me to grasp.
In retrospect, I now know why retirees look younger than people their same age who work. We get to sleep more. :)
I highly recommend it.
Severe? To the uninitiated of the secret cult of retirees, maybe, but we've been preparing for our retirement for a long time.
Here are some of the things we've done to stay ahead of the curve.
• I buy in bulk whenever something we use or eat goes on sale.
• We're disciplined with our spending. We've learned to recognize impulse buys for what they are-- cash-sucking vampires.
• We buy used whenever possible. Garage sales help here. Last weekend, we spent twelve dollars for:
-a Pyrex measuring cup
-15 dvds
-1 xBox game
-an electronic food scale
-an excellent hanging feed bucket (for my goats)
-an electronic range finder
-steel beams for Greg's metal working projects
-a metal work stand, also for Greg's projects
-a stone entry table that's tres chic
A lot of these things were 25 cents or less. Others were free (like the entry table). It had a broken metal leg that Greg welded back to new in seconds. By the way, that little piece of red decorative porcelain was a quarter.
• We still keep an expense journal which has helped in keeping us honest about what we really spend. To be fair, though, it's a pain in the tuckus to keep it updated.That takes discipline too.
• We reuse and repurpose whenever possible. For example, we need a hay barn. We could build it from scratch, but we have a HUGE greenhouse we're not using. We're going to dismantle it and use half as the skeleton for the hay barn and half for another building elsewhere.
• We sell what we no longer need. Our last garage sale was so successful, we plan another one with what's left over from the other house. We still have appliances and furniture over there.
If you want to make some quick cash, sell the stuff you no longer use. It's not doing you any favors sitting in storage. Use Craigslist, eBay, or team up with friends to hold a yard sale. Even Facebook has groups that lets you sell your stuff locally.
• I freelance. Even a little extra cash softens the blow of surprise expenses.
• We don't care about keeping up with the Joneses. I used to be envious of friends who were ten years older than us. Gorgeous home, expensive cars, great vacations. I didn't know then that they were always in debt...and probably still are.
When you're used to a certain amount of income, it can be jarring when you cut it to the bone, but it's entirely doable. Before we both retired, we spent a long time calculating expenses. The hard part is calculating emergencies and major auto or appliance breakdowns. And replacements? Those are killers!
We're lucky in that Greg can diagnose and fix most anything. In back to back weeks, he's had to fix both our AC units, each with a different problem. Replacing the parts wasn't cheap, but still a helluva lot cheaper than hiring a specialist. You can't live in Texas without air conditioning. Well, you could, but you wouldn't be happy.
I am not handy. I can grow stuff and I'm pretty good at keeping man and beasts alive, but that's the extent of my practical home skills.
Sometimes I toy with the idea of going back to work. Fortunately, I've managed to talk myself out of it. I guess if we ever have to replace our ginormous roof, or put Greg through school for his doctorate, I might consider working for da man, but until then, I'll stick to making do with what we've got.
Do you earn income from something--aside from your regular job? If you were retired right now, what would you do with your time?
I've had to teach myself to be more easy going and not try to do everything in one day. Retirement is still a hard concept for me to grasp.
In retrospect, I now know why retirees look younger than people their same age who work. We get to sleep more. :)
I highly recommend it.
Comments
You all are so self-sufficient! When the apocalypse happens, we're heading to your place. :)
Seriously though, I read an article that said more than a third of people today have NOTHING saved for their retirement.
It's worthy of a post in itself and I might do that soon. My mother is one of that third and it's scarier than you can imagine. Luckily she has six kids to support her, but what about the people who don't?
betty
Retirement right now is doing well, depending on what happens in the next few years with our world we should have a fairly steady income but our health insurance will probably eat most of it because of our ages if my husband retires before the age allowed by the posted rules. Plus I am 2 and a half years younger so that will mean a little bit of time before anything like Medicare/Social Security (if they even exist) kick in as well.
Maria you live in a great area for garage sales though and finding items free or cheap to buy is a wonderful way to get some usable stuff.
Good ideas too to reuse what you already have to 1. make some cash and 2. repurpose into something else you need.
I remember living from paycheck to paycheck (ahhh, those military years), so it's not something I WANT to do again, but know we could if forced. It's just nice not being forced (and we DO have some hefty 401Ks and IRAs to live on when needed).
I "retired" from my day job back in 1989 to stay at home with the kids, and that's how I ended up writing professionally. :) I doubt I'll ever retire from writing, but if I do I'd probably volunteer part time at an animal shelter or public school. I can't see me ever sitting around doing nothing.
Haha!
The thing is, I don't understand how it happened. When we were little we were cash-poor. She was brilliant at making things stretch, but when things got better she opened her purse wide open and spent like there was no tomorrow.
Now she's left with a meager stipend living with her children and whatever money we can send her. She doesn't blame anyone but herself. Still, it doesn't change the situation.
In your case---we survived a crash too, which took us several years to recover--it's a very real problem for everyone regardless whether you saved or not.
This is why we continue to be frugal even though on paper we look great. You never know when another crash will descend. Anyone can get hurt.
You are on your way.
Computers are a godsend--but I never want to forget the days when there was no technology and no instant information. People were more in tune with the work of living.
But you still have to accumulate. This is why we need bigger houses. :)
re: doing nothing
What is that? :) Plenty of time to do nothing when I'm dead.
Living on less has improved my life in so many ways - and not just by saving money.
You've inspired me to make more time for shopping at garage sales and flea markets, something that I've seldom done. (I do, however, get the majority of my clothes at thrift stores or clearance racks.)
I use YouTube a lot to walk me through things. And go you for doing it yourself! That's awesome. That experience is something no one can take from you.
I'd like to focus on writing when I get to that age...writing and taking a few cruises a year :-)
If I ever retired, I would still write books. :)
It's frustrating. I hate not being able to do the things I used to. That's life, I guess. Instead of food, I spend more money on doctors and drugs.
It's drinking the Koolade.
I wish I knew how to stop it. Not because it offends my sensibilities but because it's hurting people. They just don't know it yet.